This bird is not going to be a pet. That is ok. But give her a little smack back, teach her a little respect. she will learn to give you a wide berth, don't try to handle her and make her a pet and I think you will be fine.
Another question is what do you mean, "put them to bed?" Some birds take daily handling, but most chickens prefer a hands off relationship. I don't ever handle my birds unless there is a clear cause. I just let them be chickens.
Mrs K
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I am wondering if you have a rooster. Personally, I do not let any animal bite me. I don't think it is a healthy relationship to take abuse from anything.
Mrs K