Whoa; adoption? You have several months to make that decision and I agree with others that he is only going along with you on this since it completely lets him off the hook. This guy is a total snake and does not deserve you or this baby....
STOP calling him.
GET a LAWYER.
GET a counselor...
What a schmuck!!!
It sounds like he wants all the fun and none of the work. How nice for him to be able to just walk away and have $ solve all the issues.....
Ok
#1 Get an attorney
#2 Document EVERYTHING!
#3 BREATHE!
That which does not kill us makes us stronger......
You will be fine...