I agree that speaking to the rooster, and confidently "getting to know him", relaxes his protectiveness. Definitely food helps too!
Yes, my rooster was supposed to be a hen, and I was a bit slow in understanding why "she" was not laying. Really happy now.
Yes, we have had similar things happen with our rooster, and he stops fussy hens from spoiling the peace of his flock.
This is just a thought. I do not know how to navigate this site, and don't know if I could follow a response. I'm trying to grow-up! Sure enjoy our chickens! Would like to...