My Ds is turning 3 on the 20th, My neighbours daughter is turning 3 on the 19th. My Neighbour sent me an invite via facebook and said she really hoped to see us there. Anyhow we got to talking and I mentioned how it would be great to have a joined bday party for both kids, I was simply seeing it as the fact that we are inviting the same people anyhow and both of them are only one day apart in birth dates. Well She said that she didn't mind and we should get together and discuss the plans etc.
Then today I was speaking with my dh and I realized I overlooked one very important factor, I didn't discuss it with my dh. In my defense I have been working a lot and then coming home to 2 sick kids, and I have had my hands full. Anyhow, Dh tells me having a joined party may be more convenient for us adults but looking at it from the kids point of view its really taking away from their very own special day. And that while sharing is a good things for kids that bdays should really be their own day.
Well Don't I feel like a huge lug now....
Is my Dh right?? Should I tell her how my dh feels and just have both parties a day apart?? or just go ahead and plan things out?? I should mention that this will be my son's first bday party where he will have little friends coming over and I am terrible at planning parties
Ema,
Then today I was speaking with my dh and I realized I overlooked one very important factor, I didn't discuss it with my dh. In my defense I have been working a lot and then coming home to 2 sick kids, and I have had my hands full. Anyhow, Dh tells me having a joined party may be more convenient for us adults but looking at it from the kids point of view its really taking away from their very own special day. And that while sharing is a good things for kids that bdays should really be their own day.
Well Don't I feel like a huge lug now....
Is my Dh right?? Should I tell her how my dh feels and just have both parties a day apart?? or just go ahead and plan things out?? I should mention that this will be my son's first bday party where he will have little friends coming over and I am terrible at planning parties
Ema,