Cricket - It sounds like we have very similar experiences and methods.
Wisher1, I totally agree with you...I guess I should have taken more time to elaborate as you and I are now doing. I find that we both are coming from the same camp, in approach and long term planning. Also believe we agree on the interim plan(s) as well. I don't have show quality birds, but if I did, I would take my cue from you. As I said, I've been following you for quite some time and find you have a well balanced approach to many things.
I handle all my birds when they are little and cute, but with as many as I have, that is not a great deal of time. They all run to me for treats and occasionally one or two will get really friendly and perch on me or follow me around all day. I handle the roo's anytime I
need to (dusting, moving to another pen, health checks, etc.) but don't try to pet them. I find that once you catch them, they are often more calm than the hens who tend to flap and squawk a lot more.
I have also used the "hold them until they are embarrassed and submissive" with roo's that squared off at me or wing dragged toward me. I have tried catching them, putting my hand on their backs and holding them down in a squat position. I have even held them upside down by their legs and let the younger roo's take some mild cheap shots at them.
I have used these methods, but don't have as many to deal with as you. These are methods I use on rare occasions, but will work. Not my favorite thing to take time out to do. If it took more than one or two of these measures/occasions, that roo would/will be marked for freezer camp. This is my first time to have multiple roos. They are such good looking fellas, behaving well so far, with exception to that 1 roo that 1 occasion. Originally those roos were going to freezer camp, just so we could become sufficient in that area......Unfortunately for me, they are so hamdsome already...so behaviour is Real important for me to monitor.
I have since decided that there are too many really good, calm, flock protective, and diligent roosters needing good homes to fool with one that is anything but perfect. I have to get rid of so many roosters every year that the "problem child" boys are the first on the list, no matter how small the problem is, and I still have many, many good boys that go to freezer camp.........sadly.
This is why I always advise people to get rid of bad roo's and get one that deserves to live, guard a harem, and pass on those great genes to the next generation. Once I identify the good ones and choose the ones I will keep, I offer the next two or three best ones to anyone that wants them, free of charge. I have even driven to meet people who wanted them. If no one wants them, they go off with the rest of the roosters to be processed.
It is sad, guess why I always encourage folks to have a good roo. Like your Darty, (RIP) they are so protective of their girls. Dogs, fox, coyote, coons, hawks, snakes. opposum, rats.....danger in general, first ones there and not leaving 'till the girls are safe. Like you, I want to make sure ours behave appropriately.
Last year I kept two, a BCM yearling and of course, my Darty. They co-existed quite well but both were taken within a couple of days of each other by a suspected coyote. I have two breeder Silver Campine roosters that have taken over flock duty but will be put back up as soon as another two or maybe three cockerals can be selected to take their place. I don't want my full blooded, show quality, breeder stock roosters fighting and sacrificing themselves for the layer flock.
BTW - I didn't mean to offend you by disagreeing, I just like to discuss different approaches. I am always looking for suggestions on how to improve my way of doing things and I'm always willing to share what I find that works for me.
Oh no, I was hoping you would respond to me and offer corrections/advice/recommendations!!!
Wisher, I've learned so much from BYC and have had you marked, with a few others, for a long time as someone to follow and learn the ropes. You have helped me so much, unaware.
I'm thrilled the AL thread is moving along and picking up new folks! I don't want to lead astray or hinder anyone, that would be so embarrassing to me.
I'm convinced now that we read pages from the same book and look for ways to apply suggestions/knowledge/insight/correction/instruction to improve ourselves and share that with others who ask!!! Thanks so much!