Alright , who are we , and who is we ...

strangeanimal

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Mar 21, 2017
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Hi BYC !

Ok , Usually I am not really into telling a little bit about what is " private " BUT isn't there enough private , each door closed , sealed from anyone else ? yes !
So here I am introducing us ...
WHO ?

My daughter a little smarta§§ but a sunshine always smiley trough life and just the best that could ever happen to me . Her father is out of the picture as he was convicted of a crime to his younger sister I was not aware of and also and I quote this awesome man " I am sure you slept with another guy this child is not mine it does not even look like me so I am not paying too ! " altough DNA confirmed its his and she has that spitting image of him he is still not convinced , ahum :D
She doesn't lack a father despite that because I met my soon to be husband ( nervous about that ! ) already a long time ago when my father just had passed away . He was the lawyer of my case of inheriting but sparks , yes sparks are uncontrollably I guess because the both of us felt a certain connection .
I assumed it was for the best not to contact him after the case because I assumed to be JUST vulnarable and thats it but as the years passed he kept contacting me and even helped me out twice paying the rent as I was in trouble with my daughter ( suddenly her dad wanted her even while she had reached the age of 4 ) , but to continue about who :) , in 2010 I just could no longer say no to my own feelings and we started up a relationship as we already saw eachother so often .
he acts to my daughter as if she is his own yet he has lots of work and that often leaves me alone at home because he goes to different countries . My daughter now aged almost 12 has the same sense of humor that I have and she calls me her BFF ( I am a cool mum ! ;-) ) and she was not even kidding ? no :)
About me ? really I suck at this but okay ... so I like chickens ! and uuhm I am just me because I do not feel the need nor do I have the will to be walking around like so many people I notice when we go to the store with a face of steal , no we love to laugh our a§§es of and then find them again . my job or better JobS are the following : I'm the head of caretakers in the reptile and amphibiansector in a large store ( I better not mention for which brand because that would already tell my name :s ) but I love it , despite the fact I never had interest in them the shop (s) where I used to work needed just a caretaker for their stock of food , and I assume we all know what snakes love to eat , I became a parttime caretaker of the small rabbits , chicks , mise , etc and I loved the animals and my daughter and I used to hide the babies often just because we felt sorry for them , so as a " punishment " my boss and also now a very good friend sended me down to learn from the caretakers for the reptiles and I had to fead them ! and yes this was a small shock at the start but there were a few species no one was capable to get youngsters from and they needed to bread so I just asked to take them with me and in no time I showed up at work " hey B. , look what is this ? " No way was his reply and yeaaay got promoted as head of caretakers there , but little time I had with my child , my boyfriend , my study and my other job I rather not mention ( uhu legal ! and with clothing :D lol ) I got to work from home and now since a few years ago I am my own boss , working together as a hobby still with the veterinarian and the crew from the past in freetime , together with my girl who also knows a lot about animals now and loves to do help her mum . I am a person that will always be true as this is tought to me from childsage and especially because that was how I got raised by an honest man , my father who we talk to every day just to remind ourselfs to his and our beliefs in life , what is really important and what is not . about our sense of humor ? we often have the tendency to be just ironic if somethings are not exactly how they should be or even not at all , but sitting down the packs is not ment for us , we just enjoy life and love to see others enjoy , we need no victories or fights , we just live our lives and we all wish you the best too ! ( that was a veryyyy long thing isnt it ? ) I soon edit this with a few pics from our family :)
 

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