Am I annoyed or sympathetic?

chickensducks&agoose

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In a Craigslist near me, I found this ad:

We have almost never been in a situation like this, and though I am embarrassed to ask this, it has come to the point that in order to get by for the next 2 weeks +, Todays date is April 13th I think. We are in need of some very small but meaningful help until the first of the month, (May). when we have food stamps again. Both of us are disabled and unable to work at this time. Without feeling like a beggar in he streets, we need a small compliment of things to get us by, again, just for until May 1. We have done the food shelf thing, and Burlington offered virtually no food and most was spoiled. We need the following items: Whole Milk, Any Meat, Instant Coffee-Tasters Choice, Diet Pepsi, One Large Soda, Pepsi or Dr. Pepper, Cereal-Frosted Flakes, Frosted Cheerio's,Waffles, Eggs, Cat Food, Cat Litter, clumping plz, TP, Scott Towels, and gas for the car to get to Dr. Appointments. Anything


I feel sad that these people are needing things they can't afford, but if one is asking for charity, I feel annoyed by requests for sugary cereal and sodas... also, i know that the food shelfs around here are stocked often, and funded by federal and state money, as well as donations, so I call 'foul' on that part... Do you think that food shelfs, stamps etc., should pay for junk?
 
Do you think that food shelfs, stamps etc., should pay for junk?

Yes.

Truly, how much should we regulate anyone's choices? Just because someone is using FoodStamps does not mean that they should not have a choice of what they eat.
They are still people who deserve respect not babysitting.
 
I dont feel bad at all...
Really.. you NEED Tasters Choice coffee and Diet Pepsi?? Really? Maybe stop selling your food stamps for crack...
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ANYONE that says they are needy and ASKS for specific junk things like that... they just dont get it. Just folks wanting more handouts... they're not REALLY hungry...
 
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But as for WHAT foods they spend their food stamps on??
I could care less... its their choice...
We all dont want to live on brown rice and water..
 
Oh my gosh they are out of Dr. Pepper! That is serious!


Actually I think they are being a bit picky for beggers. I use to help out some folks that had attitudes just like this. I had to look at your location to make sure this wasn't them. LOL They always complained they had nothing to eat but everytime I looked there were plenty of can goods and dry goods and stuff in the freezer. They liked to live off of stuff they could just pop in the microwave. Cooking was too much work for them.
 
chickensducks&agoose :

Well, you can't use them for cigarettes or alcohol, so the govt. is regulating. I just know that when I'm broke, I don't get soda. I don't get ice cream, I don't get junk, because I can't afford it.

I dont see that as regulating. They are food stamps and only cover those things considered as food, of which neither alcohol or tobacco is.
I just can see 'punishing' the many for the sins of the many. The majority of people do use thier FS for 'appropriate' purchases.
To not allow a family on FS to treat their kids to ice cream or an occasional soda because of the poor choices of others would be very sad.​
 
If these people lived close to me (within 1/2 hour), I would give them eggs. I have lots of eggs. But when I am broke (and we have been there more than once), I wouldn't ever dream of asking someone else to fill my shopping list. We live on pasta and eggs and drink water...

I just think that the point of food stamps and assistance is to help people make it through the month. If they spend it on junk, they'll be hungry soon, and have no nutrition. when I get state insurance, there are lots of hoops I have to jump through, and restrictions, and so many things that it doesn't cover (acupuncture, massage, chiropractic therapy, dental, etc.)... i don't understand how this is any different.
 

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