Americano Blue's musher/mushing chat thread

[RezChamp]

oh darn.... young lady.... not"girl". Sorry

 

[Americano Blue]

oh darn.... young lady.... not"girl". Sorry

No worries.

 

[charnic44]

I want to share some stuff with all y'all. My wish is for y'all to read and think long and hard about what's ahead and what you want for yourself.
Some of what I share may not seem relevant but look close....again....

I can give away only that which I have.

Just after my babyest daughter was born I was approached by an older lady I've known all but 3 years of my life who ran a "healing center". She asked me,"How many daughters is that now?" I told her this is my 4th daughter. With a look on her face that remided me of the proverbial cat that ate the canary (now keep in mind this a woman who designed the program for and ran a healing center)she said, "OOOOOOoooooo000! Pay back time". And stupid me not knowing what she meant even though her tone of voice and demeanor belied "meewaykawkawsisit tapiskootsahpihseesquaysees" I innocently with a polite, questioning smile asked what she meant to which she replied with a smug grimmace."Payback for the way you treated all those women". When I quickly and lovingly hugged her and said, " Oh, thats so nice to hear. Thank you so very much sharing tha withme. I have so much eauty to look forward to." She pulled away and scowled then asked me with a kinda growl "What the F---(yup the same woman who designed the program for and ran a healing center) does that suppozed to F----- mean?" I gently said but loud enough for the closer bystanders to hear,"Mama Bear, you know I treated those women with more respect than they had for themselves". She just huffed and actually strode away.

I've been around, seen a few things....some of it wasn't nice. As a matter of fact if I ever find out that some man and/or woman did to my daughter/s and/or my son/s some that of which I have personally witnessed and/or interveened on, I will most likely be coresponding with y'all from behind bars.
I've seen young men and young women throw away something that we can only have once in our life, as opposed to sharing it in a beautiful way with someone we truly care about. 
Iv'e seen young men and young women have it taken, stolen,...
I have seen rape first hand, I have seen sexual abuse first hand. I can with all certainty assure of you that in 85% of these instances alcohol played a big role.
I can also most certainly guarentee you the single biggest mistake I have ever made was to take that first drink, right behind my thinking "I can handle alcohol!"
BUT I am proud to say that I stopped some people from committing those acts of gross disrespect.

Perhaps my young friend your buddy is so utterly very lucky I aint your dad. I would most likely be in jail rightnow for aggrevated assault causing grave bodily harm and your buddy would have scars for the rest of his life to remind him to always treat someone"s (very young)daughter with respect. 

 Only if I have self respect can I give it.
That older lady was a drunk for many years and still carries a lot of the "skeletons in the closet". She still walks around in her woundedness with false pride and uttering woundedly. "Misery loves company" carries a lot of wisdom if we slow down a little and look around, assess, act with respect, love, caring, sharing, honesty, courage, bravery,wisdom......all for self first....it aint dooodley squat if you cant apply it to yourself.
"I can give away only that which I have".

...look again....

If you want clarification PM me
Sorry....Translation of meewaykawkawsisit tapiskootsahpihsiseesquaysis" to English makes refferance to some speaking with a sharp tonque like a little girl.

Sad.... And wise at the same time. That's kinda how my dad is. Except with a 12 gauge....

Pipoon allowed me to stick my head in her house today. of course I was lovingly telling what a good girl she is and she's such a good mommy and strong dog.
so she din"t bite my hand or my face when I moved some of the pups around.
She has 5 pure white pups except for the one with the black tipped tail. 2 of them are female 1 really big and on the tiny side. 1 nice big male. Dono what the other 2 are but 1 is Med boned & 1 is Big boned.
4 are Blk&W. 3 are your typical Irish Standards for Sibe coat patterns and the pinto. 1 small boned F, 1 Med boned M, the pinto is F and Med boned. I dont know what sex the other Med bomed 1 is.
They all seem to be doing fine, good voices, all movig with seemingly relative ease, no blue(cold) spots, no frostbite, all suckling....
Pipoon is a good mom. and thank goodness i built an isulated house. it was -30*C this morning according to my sisters truck thermoeter and inside the doghouse was toasty warm. I need to put fresh straw and shavings in there though because the humidity level is too high. 
I'm going to a hockey game rightaway so I will touch ase later. 
love to all

A good sized litter (9, right? Correct me if I'm wrong).

Sorry my girl. Not for awhile. they live outside and I'm thinking it's gona real tough to get my paws holding a camera in their house and hold it at the proper angle long enough and often enough to get everybody. The houses I built this year have shade rooms and extended over hangs to keep the drifting snow out in winter and even more shade in summer.
It's tough squirming this battered old body around on the snow. but when the pups are strong enough to handle a cpl mins of sub-zero temps outside their house for a cpl minseach I will get pix up. 
I know it"s exciting to go "AWWWWW!" when we see little wee pups but in this case we're gona, actually y"all're gona hafta wait for a bit. 

Yeah. That's probably a good idea.

 

[SternRose]

how old are you?

14 he's 6ish months younger..
I told him I wasn't getting drunk but., after a few sips it started tasting better. I only had 1\2 a can,
So I cleared up that last hug with another girl we hung out with, she to was tipsy, she's the youngest of the 3of us
My intentions were NOT to get drunk, I wasn't completely drunk. But he was DRUNK when we last hugged and his plans were made clear, he want more but I didn't were just friends. I pushed him off when he tried to take it further. All I had to do if he was to much was just holler for my dad, we were right by his bedroom.
He wanted me to get drunk, henwanted me to drink 2 bud lights.
He had about 4 maybe 5 so he was drunk. I told him no more for the night for his safety. He tried reaching for my can after in told my friend to dump it out, so in started pushing his and away so to 3minutes he was holding/rubbing my hand while driving? I was in the seat right behind him so I could take his beer away when he was driving, him holding my hand help him out.
He's a really run drunk but he's a handful, we had to keep snaking him for a few reasons.
OK enough with that....,
My parents don't know about it so,

My dad thinks I smoke because bæ was smoking so I smelled like cigs. So dadsnuoset but I keep saying I don't smoke. I reaky don't never will.


Congrats on the pups!!!!!!!!

 

[Americano Blue]

14 he's 6ish months younger..
I told him I wasn't getting drunk but., after a few sips it started tasting better. I only had 1\2 a can,
So I cleared up that last hug with another girl we hung out with, she to was tipsy, she's the youngest of the 3of us
My intentions were NOT to get drunk, I wasn't completely drunk. But he was DRUNK when we last hugged and his plans were made clear, he want more but I didn't were just friends. I pushed him off when he tried to take it further. All I had to do if he was to much was just holler for my dad, we were right by his bedroom.
He wanted me to get drunk, henwanted me to drink 2 bud lights.
He had about 4 maybe 5 so he was drunk. I told him no more for the night for his safety. He tried reaching for my can after in told my friend to dump it out, so in started pushing his and away so to 3minutes he was holding/rubbing my hand while driving? I was in the seat right behind him so I could take his beer away when he was driving, him holding my hand help him out.
He's a really run drunk but he's a handful, we had to keep snaking him for a few reasons.
OK enough with that....,
My parents don't know about it so,

My dad thinks I smoke because bæ was smoking so I smelled like cigs. So dadsnuoset but I keep saying I don't smoke. I reaky don't never will.


Congrats on the pups!!!!!!!!

Please don't drink or smoke. I know how it can ruin lives and how quickly it does it. You can't get back time and mistakes can't be erased. Drinking is never the answer, it only makes the problem worse.

 

[charnic44]

Please don't drink or smoke. I know how it can ruin lives and how quickly it does it. You can't get back time and mistakes can't be erased. Drinking is never the answer, it only makes the problem worse.  

I second that completely. You can have fun and get a 'buzz' with out alcohol/drugs. Not accusing any one of anything but I've had too many family members and friends die or get hurt because of those things. Now I know your crush was doing it and you want him to like you, but that doesn't mean you have to do it. He can make his own decisions and so can you. Not meaning to lecture but we are the same age and I'd personally never surround myself with people that do those things (smoke/drink that much if at all). I don't know if that kinda thing is accepted where you live but here nobody seems to care and yet more and more people die because of it. I watched a short video at school where some college did a scan thing on a 21 year old man's brain before & after he was drunk. They then took a scan of an average 4 year old's brain compared to when the guy was drunk; he had more gaps in his brain than the 4 year old (less gaps = good). Just trying to prove a point. Now, my parents will allow maybe a couple sips (usually my sis had friends over and some of them do worse things than that...) if you aren't going to drive afterwards but I have never (and will never) had any. I know that I can be happy and feel good without poisons. Heck, I feel happy if I get to even be around my friends. You don't nessesaraly have to agree with everything I say but I can say I at least tried to offer my two bits.

 

[SternRose]

Please don't drink or smoke. I know how it can ruin lives and how quickly it does it. You can't get back time and mistakes can't be erased. Drinking is never the answer, it only makes the problem worse.  

I know whatba does and can do. My 3rd oldest brother used to be a big druggie/drunk he's now clean.
A few of my siblings dad died from drinking to much
My grandma died of cancer she was a smoker
My oldest brother quit chewing
My dad used to be a smojwr . quit for mom, he started drinking but quit before mom found out,
My 2oldest sister used to be a stoner
My 5th brother is mad at me because I don't know what the new school drug is.
He's upset cuz I'm drug free,
i grew upnwith this. Used to it,

 

[Malibu99]

I've never tried alcohol, smoked, or even sworn and I've kind of vowed to keep it that way. There was an elderly woman at my church who was talking about her life, and she told us she has never sworn once. It kind of... Inspired me? to be like that. I hope to be able to say the same when I'm her age. You become the people you surround yourself with. Surround yourself with sad, drinking friends? Before you know it, you'll follow in their footsteps. Just my opinion

 

[SternRose]

He had no control of me, I made the design to drink it.
I've have 25 friends die because of driving drunk and or on drugs. I'm aware of these things. I only will get drunk if I have a sober DDMin the car.
I'm not planning on getting drunk for awhile. Hang over suck!!

 

[Malibu99]

Maybe we should switch topics?? I don't believe this is considered "family friendly" territory. Just don't want this thread closed.