Through trial and error, I have learned that a lot of what it takes to get a good photo is based on the equipment you use. In my case, the digital camera with zoom lens and flash turned out to be no where near as good as my cell phone. Granted, the camera is not the newest, certainly not newer than the technology in my phone. I had a similar problem 24 years ago when my son was born. The very good, Nikon SLR, with all the manual adjustments and fancy lenses and flash attachment, was quickly replaced by a newer, one-hand, point-and-shoot, automatic model. By the time I got the Nikon out, focused, and adjusted...he had stopped doing whatever it was that was so cute/funny/etc. Or, he had simply moved out of focus.
Other than having the right equipment, the next basic pointers are (much as with photographing children) to get down on their level, or bring them up to yours. Otherwise, you'll end up with lots of shots of the tops of their heads, or, if they are looking up at you, shots of up their nostrils. (speaking from experience here.)
Another plug for the cell phone camera, something you can hold in one hand and click without having to look through the view-finder, can be very handy for catching somebody in the act of sitting in the nest box and laying their first egg. That way you don't have to literally poke your head into their business. As with any thing else, practice makes perfect.....just keep trying and see what works best for you. Have fun!
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