Any professionals out there?

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My hubby will go to get something done...like carwashing, etc and I'll say "I'll do it for you, save the money" and he always says "Oh, I still pay. One way or the other I still pay!"
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Dealership Coordinator for a Renewable Energies Company. When I am done coordinating at work, I coordinate a horse breeding business with waaayyy too many chickens on the side as a “hobby”.
 
Nothing bad or obscene. My wife does a lot for myself and the boys but does not receive a "paycheck" but what she does receive is a home, auto, animals, not having to work a job (her choice) and gets to do what she wants within reason which is provided by myself and I assure you it does not come free. That is all.
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I am not really sure I can put a dollar figure on being a mom.
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I am a Registered Nurse. My husband is a Chiropractor with another doctorate in Neurology.

I know a surgeon who keeps chickens, and a lawyer, and a pastor and his wife, a writer and a legal assistant. Oh! and another nurse. And a secretary.

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Maybe because I live in the suburbs of Chicago, so I'm not surrounded by farmers or Ag. I only have suburbanites around me. And our alderman used to keep chickens, in his opinion "anyone who keeps hens ought to be able to keep a rooster. Its just the right thing to do".

To all the stay-at-home-parents:

About 10 years ago, there was a little momentum to legally designate stay-at-home parents as a job (certain states wanted the income tax dollars to save for their retirement years) but the movement fizzled out. But all you stay-at-home-parents out there, I say IT IS SO A PROFESSION! Don't want to hear no "I'm just a stay at home mom", nope don't want to hear it. If we had more of these this world would be a saner, better place. Parenting is hard work and should be done in shifts, IMO
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There is no dollar amount on being a mom & rearing a child, it's beyond measure. How important is mom? Who carried us for 9 months in fainting & pain? Who changed our diapers, fed us, took care of us before we could take care of ourselves? Mom did! She is the Ultimate professional! Bar none.


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I know this thread already has a million replies, but it made me giggle. I would say the majority of people here are NOT farmers or ranchers. For most of us chickens are a (very serious :p ) hobby. :)
 
There is no dollar amount on being a mom & rearing a child, it's beyond measure. How important is mom? Who carried us for 9 months in fainting & pain? Who changed our diapers, fed us, took care of us before we could take care of ourselves? Mom did! She is the Ultimate professional! Bar none.


IMO, ofcourse.
I know I am not alone when I say, thanks! Of course, this also applies to those that raise kids, but didn't necessarily give birth to them too. It is very hard work. Not saying other proffessions aren't either, because they are. I've done other very tiring jobs too, before and during raising kids. It just seems to be a different kind of "tired" that I feel at the end of the day. Most jobs you can leave at the workplace when you are done for the day. My break is when I finally fall asleep at night, and trust me, not even then! I tell my husband that not only does he get a paycheck for what he does, but he constantly has people telling him how good he is at what he does, or he gets tips. Not that I want a pat on the back everytime I do the laundry -which is everyday-, just a little credit here and there. Yesterday we were arguing, and he told me "I get plenty of 'credit' for what I do." He has a tendancy to speak with out thinking sometimes. Needless to say, that comment did not go over well. It reminded me of the other night when we were out to eat for my husbands bday, and his parents were there. My daughter had thanked me for something she got for Christmas. I said that technically,it is from me and daddy. My daughter said" did he even know what we got for Christmas? Biting my toungue, I just forced a smile and said kind of...(I had bought every single Christmas item for everyone, and not once did my husband either help, nor did he even care to ask what was bought, even for his own kids! I had brought this up to him before, so he knew I was upset over it. )Anyway, after I say "kind of" my mil pipes in and says, "no, he just makes all the money!" I felt like dropping her right there.
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First of all, what ever measly amount I bring in from odd jobs always goes directly to the family. Not only that, many of the gifts were put on credit, and my dad has also been helping us out financially. It just made me feel like my husband makes the money, and I just blow it. To make matters worse, my husband says "right!". Ugh, not a good evening.
Sorry op, got off on a tangent, I'm done now.
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