Next thing i’m struggling with is weaning the kittens from mom. So the dilemma is, all the kittens and mom are in quarantine in a room in my house. Anytime i put food or kitten formula in a shallow dish, mom cat automatically thinks it’s for her. If i turn my back for 2 seconds it’s all gone. I can not let mom cat out of the room because they are still in quarantine. Does anyone have any solutions or thoughts of what i should do?
I can think of several ideas, although each has some possible downsides.
You could put in several dishes of food or kitten formula. Or smear it around on a large dish. That way the kittens may get some, because the mother cannot be at every spot at once. Seeing the mother eat the food may help the kittens realize it is good stuff, so her eating some may be helpful that she eats it too.
Maybe you could put the mother cat in a carrier or crate for a bit, so the kittens have a chance at the food. (This might distress the kittens enough that they will not eat, or it may be fine. If the mother really likes to eat, you could give her a little bit of food in the crate, and give food to the kittens outside the crate.)
Or just hold & pet the mother cat, to give the kittens time to sample the food. (Only if the mother cat will allow this.)
Or if the mother cat is not tame, maybe you can sit right by the plate of food to discourage her while the kittens eat, or even smear food on your finger and offer that to the kittens to taste. (If the mother cat is not tame, this may just tame her instead of letting the kittens have the food-- a different good effect, but not the one you are currently looking for.)
Maybe you can put the food in a cage with kitten-sized openings, where the mother cat cannot go. Then the kittens could wander in and out and sample the food. (Getting the right size openings may be difficult, depending on how much bigger the mother is than the kittens. But people so make "creep feeders" for many kinds of animals, so the young ones can get extra food without the mothers being able to overeat.)
Maybe you can put out a large amount of food, and the mother will get full and leave some for the kittens.
I don't know whether any of those will be quite right, but maybe my ideas can help you find something that does work.