some are going to die. That is a fact of life, that often throws people off into guilt, that they should have done something different.
I do think the number one cause of problems on here, is lack of space, or ignoring flock dynamics like trying to add one bird, or adding too young of chicks to the flock, wishing chickens would just be nice. They are not people, they are chickens, and will act like chickens.
For me, my biggest problem is predators..... mine free range each day, nearly, and that is a chance I take. I do have the space and capabilites to lock them up safe..... once we built that, it helped a great deal, a good roo helps with that too, but....I still lose some to predators occasionally.
But the main thing is, all of them will die, they do not live forever, and often times 3 years is about it. You do read about much older hens/roos on here, but that is the exception. Many people on here, do the whole vet thing trying to prevent that early death, but I just get new chicks. These are not equivalent to people to me.
I love having a flock, and at times I have favorites, but I really don't have pets. I have an ongoing, changing flock, sometimes, I cull things, and sometimes nature culls things for me..... that is the long term relationship that I have. I do not have long term relationships with each bird.
Feed them commercial feed, some scraps, clean water, protection from the wind and predators, and let them be chickens. They will give you years of eggs and enjoyment, but not forever the same birds.
Mrs K