I've got a male silkie roo, and he's well, blackish in color. (Not really jet black, but now blue, not grey....I guess a sooty black) He is a sweetie. And I've got a white female and she's a dollbaby. They are young, I believe the little pullet should lay an egg sometime soon.
I did have some hatchery silkies from the Meyer Hatchery, and they were just darling, but they weren't friendly at all. Very scared everytime I was near, and they just never warmed up to me like all my other chicks I've raised. I gave those to an aquaintance.
I do think that their temperaments depend on breeding, and Stormy and Snowy, the ones I have now are just terrific! They came from a breeder. A friend of mine had ordered eggs from this lady, and she put some silkie eggs in there for free. My friend hatched them and didn't want the silkies, so I bought them from her. I am sooo glad I have them. I just love them.
Good luck with your silkies! I think you'll like them.