CarolinaHen, I know how silly I must sound. I've wanted chickens for so many years, and I guess I thought they'd respond to kindness like we humans do. I just went to the coop and locked up the pop door and gave the three girls a quick pet and left. I'm going to try to re-home two of these young cockerels before I figure out if I've ruined them or not. I'll just keep whichever one is left. I never would have guessed that snuggling a cockerel would make him hate me in the end. Am I the only one this dumb?
Vickis girls what a lovely kind owner you are. Not stupid, you´re learning. Stupid are those who don´t want to learn!
I tend to keep one cock-bird with my breeding hens, and no cock-bird with my laying hens, because too many cocks do the hens in..(no feathers on their backs, and often they reduce their laying).
I like to talk to all my birds, but after reading this thread I realise that I am more stand-offish with the cocks, just a natural thing I suppose. But I do pick them up to inspect, just to handle them, to take somewhere, etc, but I never do it to fuss them. The hens I fuss just because I like to, and then I get to fuss their chicks, too.
Another thing I notice is that the hens come right up and under our feet when we´re digging etc, but the cocks stay at a distance. It´s a natural thing. They know that I feed them, never hurt them, but they just never know that we won´t eat them! ...they keep their distance!
With your younger cockerels you´ll be fine...just stop fussing them, only pick them up to inspect them, don´t be all cooey with them, and then choose the one you like....walk into their space to make them move, just like gryphon said, good suggestion. I do that with my cocks, just so they remember. Trouble is, when I do want to pick one up, they keep moving out of my space, so I have to corner them! But once I have one, they´re really calm and no problem.
Enjoy your chickens!