When ever my companion asks me what I want I cant tell him because I dont know myself. We have been together for 10 years now and he is easy to buy for, a movie, tools, carving tools, carving magazines, carving books, carving video (yes he carves). clothes, socks, undies, shoes.
But I am picky about my clothes, it's not that I want something expensive it's how they feel, I have tender skin and some types of clothes just plain hurt my skin. I dont wear jewlery, and he doesnt know what a sexy night gown is. Flannel is fine. lol
I just want large animals, but we cant afford any more of them, I have plenty of birds and building supplies.
So it's hard for him to buy me something, however since he carves I love what ever he carves for me. I like hand made gifts the best.
So instead of telling him what I want I tell him what I dont want.
Go for the fencing material and gloves that's something that you want and can use. Best type of gift.