that is so horrific, that i cannot even comprehend it. i am going thru so much for my child right now and would absolutely slowly painfully gladly kill whomever is hurting her if it wouldnt hurt her more. they should make every day he has left on earth as painful as possible. i like the idea of the drowning almost everyday purplechicken, it feels like poetic justice. i am going to ponder some poetic justice for my ex for the pain he has caused my daughters, even tho i wont do it. maybe it will be enough to imagine it!