brother and sister in law rant.

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i have had it with them and i really have no one to complain to and i need to get it out.

my brother got the devil (sister in law) pregnant at the age of 15, he was 16 when baby was born. they got married when he was 18. she is a year older. i swear he married a she devil!!!!!! my mom is always walking on egg shells trying not to make her nad cuz she's a spoiled little brat. she lived her for 2 years rent free and always complained that my room is bigger. the last place we lived in, my brother got a bigger room, so this time it was my turn. she always complained about how spoiled i am. nope. when i was working i bought EVERYTHING myself. she hardly worked and would go food shoppin with my mom and put all kinds of stuff in there (she isn't the smallest girl). one day when i was at work i got a text from my mom telling me that danielle was being a brat (not the word she used lol) so i thought oh great. cuz the last time she acted like that was cuz the cat scratched the baby cuz she never taught baby not to pull the cats tail or it will scratch. soo the day my mom text me and said she was being evil, her and my dad got into a yelling match about the cat because she was kicking my cat and what not. my dad tried to explain that if you pull a cats tail it will scratch. so she went off yelling and what not. i guess by the end of the night, she spit in my dad's face!!!!!!! still to this day never apologized for it.

last october my older brother came home from iraq. we have a neighbor who hates my brother and will act like a jerk when he is here. we wanted throw my brother a party because while in iraq he earned a bronze star. my mom warned everyone that if he starts with his crap, we are calling the cops. well, we ended up calling the cops. my little brother's evil wife is friends with the jerk neighbor and hates my big brother as well because she kicked my cat in front of him and he said hey don't kick the cat! how would you like it if i kicked you and she said the cat scratched my baby, my brother said well tell your baby not to pull cats tails lol. (the cat is really sweet and would never go out to harm someone. she doesn't like to be messed with) sooo anyway. my evil sister in law and brother left the party cuz they were mad my mom called the cops on her rude "friend" across the street.

later that week my brother called to tell us that evil lady is pregnant. my mom didn't know she was on speaker phone and said that explains the attitude. that caused a war.. they went on and on and on and even brought me into it. she said that i deserved to get beat up by my boyfriend which was just 2 months before the argument. so i was mad and i went on facebook and i called her a whale lol. i know i shouldn't have but she deserved it. i can take back my comment but what she said was worse than anything else anyone could have said especially that early into it. i was still in bed 24/7 heartbroken, in my dark place, blah blah blah. sooo in the midst of the argument my mom said danielle aren't you a christian and she said yes i am, yeah mmkay... i have tried to make up with her and apologize for the sake of my neice i haven't seen since december. when i did see her she hugged me so tight and didn't let go. i started crying. we were buddies..

well now she keeps pulling this power trip stuff. my birthday was in jan. no one called, that's fine. feb. was my brothers bday. my grandparents were going to take him to lunch with my mom and myself. once he knew i was going, he said if i go he's not going. whatever, my grandpa told him if you can't be civil with your sister go out to lunch alone with your wife. he did. we had a birthday lunch without birthday boy, cuz she pulls power trips. saturday was my mom's birthday. did they call her?? NOPE they claim she was in the mountains all day and didn't have service. so now he's coming home from phoenix early and needs a ride home at our dinner time cuz she's in bedrest now. WOW are you serious????????

all this crap is really making me mad, and what's making me even more mad is my mom keeps kissing their butts!!!! we all keep telling her to stop because they are feeding off of it and honestly i am tired of it because she is showing them that she is weak and will be there for her every beck and call. she calls my brother everyday and he never answers. this crap is REALLLY really on my last nerve!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Really..why do you care??
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I'd be GLAD the idiot was gone from my life....
 
i never get to see my neice and now i'm going to have a nephew i won't ever get to meet. they just irritate the crap out of me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Sounds like they still have a lot of growing up to do. You can't make your Mom stop enabling them but you can remove yourself from the equation. If she gets into their drama you'll have to politely remind her that you don't want to be involved, so please don't tell you about it. Eventually she'll either get tired of being used and stand up to them or she'll keep at it forever and you'll be grown and out of the house still shaking your head about it.

And I know it's not my place, but I'm butting in, anyway. PLEASE tell me that the bf who hit you is no longer any sort of friend at all.
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NOONE deserves that. Ever.
 
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well..you cant change people. So either, grin and bear it and deal with her....OR..stay away from them.... those are about your only 2 options at this point.
Sucks about your neice/nephew though...
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oh no one hits me and gets away with it. no one does anything and gets away with it. ex bf went to jail (he was also on drugs so i helped him get sober) he wasn't supposed to, but he called apologized and thanked me for it cuz he got sober. we are civil with each other but aren't as close and won't ever be, but i'm ready to get back out there lol. i am tired of being single it's over rated lol..

yeah they are immature. (younger than me too i am 22) they told my mom i should be moved out of the house by now HAHAHAHA noooo sorry i can't afford it and i don't plan on moving out till i am engaged or married because it's expensive and i want to be a vet tech, it's my dream. not enough to live on my own
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i guess i just have to deal with it, but it's nice to have someone to talk to about things. i don't have friends (due to break up they treated me like crap after and showed their true colors). my only friend is duckyfromoz. she lives in australia and i can't just pick up and call her
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not watching them grow up really sucks. i love all my neices and nephews (sometimes my sister's crazy kids lol) but my older brothers 2 boys are sooo attached to me and my neice (lil bros girl) used to be when she was allowed to hang out with me
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ohh i forgot, i tried to wish my neice a happy birthday in dec. and they hung up when i got on the phone. said they lost service, but i am a cell phone whiz i know when i am hung up on or when a call drops.
 
Okay, take a deep breath. Be civil to them, but ignore anything that irritates you; simply do not respond at all; act as it it doesn't exist, wasn't said, etc.

How long you live at home is between you and your parents; it is none of your siblings business.

Send birthday/Christmas and just whenever cards to you niece; when the baby is born, send a present and send cards to him as well.

If anyone pulls the cat's tail or otherwise messes with it, lock the cat away for the remainder of their visit (protecting your cat). If it is a child, nicely correct the child, and tell him or her that pulling the cat's tail might cause it to scratch or bite.

As for the neighbor, let your parents handle it.

Thank your grandfather for standing up for you.

And be selective in choosing your next bf.
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thanks sonoran silkies.

the sending cards is a good idea!! i will try that. but i am sure they will check for money and throw the cards out. if they are even smart enough to look in the card for money.

we have taught other children not to pull cats tails. she swears we have like mountain lions here. neice can't come over and tells my dad we have "meat kitties" yeah cuz i walk around with scratches all the time.

we are moving soon. that will handle the neighbor. neighbor messes with me too and like i said no one messes with me and gets away with it. i am tired of being walked all over and people get away with it.. nope not anymore not after ex boyfriend.

next boyfriend can come find me. i am attracted to jerks, and i always want who doesn't want me sooooo whatever. lol this isn't even about my horrible love life anyway.

i don't hate many people but i HATE my sister in law
 
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i am taking applications for my next x wife........
 
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i am taking applications for my next x wife........

Booooyd...your looking for a biff twang!!!!
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