Hi,
I hope the title to this isn't too offensive, but there's really no other way to say it (that I know of). Our budgie, continually humps her perches. They are amazing perches (natural wood) that she's had since she was a baby. I've heard you're not supposed to have just 1 budgie due to the fact that they are very social creatures. I disagree with that because ours is allowed anywhere in the house she wants to go...mainly she's either on my head or shoulder - or in her open-top cage. She's a very happy bird - even if she is single! She's a year and a half now.
That being said, is there any way (other than getting a male) that I can stop her from humping her perches? I mean...she seems no worse for wear but I'm concerned she'll lose some feathers "down there" in time. Not only that but ...it is a bit unsightly to glance over and see her going to town on her perch (especially when the pastor and his wife are over for tea! *cough*)
Any way to stop the rubbing/humping (trying very hard to write this post in an inoffensive manner but it's not working)
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What we have tried already:
Removing the perches and replacing them with new ones
Result: She screams at the top of her lungs (screeches) until she gets her old ones back...this has gone on for two or three days at times, when we were trying to be sticklers. She screeched so much she made herself sick.
Removing the perches period - no perches
Same result
Giving her a stuffed bird (toy) - flung it around her cage and looked indignant.
Don't know what to do
I hope the title to this isn't too offensive, but there's really no other way to say it (that I know of). Our budgie, continually humps her perches. They are amazing perches (natural wood) that she's had since she was a baby. I've heard you're not supposed to have just 1 budgie due to the fact that they are very social creatures. I disagree with that because ours is allowed anywhere in the house she wants to go...mainly she's either on my head or shoulder - or in her open-top cage. She's a very happy bird - even if she is single! She's a year and a half now.
That being said, is there any way (other than getting a male) that I can stop her from humping her perches? I mean...she seems no worse for wear but I'm concerned she'll lose some feathers "down there" in time. Not only that but ...it is a bit unsightly to glance over and see her going to town on her perch (especially when the pastor and his wife are over for tea! *cough*)
Any way to stop the rubbing/humping (trying very hard to write this post in an inoffensive manner but it's not working)
[Edited to add information]
What we have tried already:
Removing the perches and replacing them with new ones
Result: She screams at the top of her lungs (screeches) until she gets her old ones back...this has gone on for two or three days at times, when we were trying to be sticklers. She screeched so much she made herself sick.
Removing the perches period - no perches
Same result
Giving her a stuffed bird (toy) - flung it around her cage and looked indignant.
Don't know what to do

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Thank you for your suggestion. I know she's a very happy bird with no 'cagemate' but...she probably would be a little happier even still with a friend. We may try again. =)
I agree with silkiechicken. Sounds like a boy. Females don't hump because their female parts aren't in the same area. Also, if their is a mess left behind, that's male bird mojo. Cere sexing is not accurate in all birds. I have a female the avian vet and I both thought was male, and the opposite with a male. The blood tests came back and everyone was surprised by the results. The cere thing just isn't 100% accurate, I've had several parakeets/budgies over the years and sometimes the cere is accurate and sometimes it's not. If you really want to know for sure take them to the vet and have them do a blood test. It's cheap and easy. But if you just want to make it settle down, cover it's cage and limit the light to less hours. It'll simmer down