m.kitchengirl,
thanks for your candor.
My approach is generally conservative (with, if you ask my beloved, some remarkable exceptions) with taking on a big project. So I like to hear the full range of experience from others. (Thanks, everybody!
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It's good, for me, that I read Storey's Guide to Raising Ducks (except the entirety of the sections on colors), because it made me realize that I would be on a steep, steep learning curve with just getting my girls to adulthood.
There are also the sad stories about duck mothers who don't do so well, congenital conditions, and so forth.
Then there are the drake stories. Yowza!
So while I suspect that longer term, I will likely take in a drake, it's good to be able to look out for trouble before it drops in unexpectedly.
One reason I've considered rearing some ducklings here is that there aren't any breeders anywhere near me that I'm aware of (would love to be corrected about that. Who's in southern New England with runners? No rush, just want to know you're there. er, here.)