It sure is a conundrum, I have a large, bossy, neutered tomcat and was initially wary of how he'd get along with my new chickens. All good so far. We adopted this cat at 10 months old, had him neutered and, because he had been stuck in a room and mostly ignored for months, had to "socialise" him to be good around people. Based on our experiences, and what I read of your circumstances, I think the following is well worth a try.
1. Have him neutered. It really did calm our boy down. Maybe you're right to be sceptical about what difference it will make - but if you can afford it, then it's a good first step. Nothing to lose, right? Except for him of course ..... and at least he won't be adding to the unwanted kittens in the neighbourhood. Plus unneutered toms can get a bit, frankly, smelly!
2. Within your own terms, regularly interact with the cat. Maybe stroll around outside with him, call him to you, give him a pat. Pick him up, if that doesn't activate your allergy too much. A little and often will show him you can be trusted, that he is in a safe place and that life is good. Our particular cat just could NOT be picked up, he panicked and fought like a wild thing. So, every time we passed him, we would pick him up for one second then out him straight back down. The next day, we held him for two seconds, and so on over the days and weeks until he slowly learnt we meant him no harm and that this was a normal and not terrifying thing to happen. All sorts of his behaviours calmed down.
3. Spend time with the cat and the puppy together. Stroke and talk to them in turn. Demonstrate that you all belong. If the cat is already being quite good around the puppy, the chances are that the dangerous time is over and the odd playful swipe is the worst you can expect.
4. Let the cat see you in the fenced area with the chickens. Encourage him to watch you and speak to him in a calm, soft voice. I tell him what I'm doing and why - but it doesn't matter what you say. Your tone of voice and your interaction with the cat, tells him that you are doing something normal, maybe after a while, boring!
My Mum gave me this advice when I got my chickens and was worried about the cat - it's just like bringing a new baby home! The older children will be curious, suspicious, maybe threatened. Let them see and touch. Explain what you are doing. Act like you all belong together - and children and animals will detect that and act as if you all belong together. And take it slowly.
I can see you really want to do the right thing by all your animals, which is so admirable. I hope some of these ideas are helpful. It may not always work, but we now have a happy, loving cat who finds the chickens mostly boring and no longer rushes at them as if he wants to eat them. By the way, the cat is the Spike in my user name and we are in Sydney, Australia. Good luck!!!
1. Have him neutered. It really did calm our boy down. Maybe you're right to be sceptical about what difference it will make - but if you can afford it, then it's a good first step. Nothing to lose, right? Except for him of course ..... and at least he won't be adding to the unwanted kittens in the neighbourhood. Plus unneutered toms can get a bit, frankly, smelly!
2. Within your own terms, regularly interact with the cat. Maybe stroll around outside with him, call him to you, give him a pat. Pick him up, if that doesn't activate your allergy too much. A little and often will show him you can be trusted, that he is in a safe place and that life is good. Our particular cat just could NOT be picked up, he panicked and fought like a wild thing. So, every time we passed him, we would pick him up for one second then out him straight back down. The next day, we held him for two seconds, and so on over the days and weeks until he slowly learnt we meant him no harm and that this was a normal and not terrifying thing to happen. All sorts of his behaviours calmed down.
3. Spend time with the cat and the puppy together. Stroke and talk to them in turn. Demonstrate that you all belong. If the cat is already being quite good around the puppy, the chances are that the dangerous time is over and the odd playful swipe is the worst you can expect.
4. Let the cat see you in the fenced area with the chickens. Encourage him to watch you and speak to him in a calm, soft voice. I tell him what I'm doing and why - but it doesn't matter what you say. Your tone of voice and your interaction with the cat, tells him that you are doing something normal, maybe after a while, boring!
My Mum gave me this advice when I got my chickens and was worried about the cat - it's just like bringing a new baby home! The older children will be curious, suspicious, maybe threatened. Let them see and touch. Explain what you are doing. Act like you all belong together - and children and animals will detect that and act as if you all belong together. And take it slowly.
I can see you really want to do the right thing by all your animals, which is so admirable. I hope some of these ideas are helpful. It may not always work, but we now have a happy, loving cat who finds the chickens mostly boring and no longer rushes at them as if he wants to eat them. By the way, the cat is the Spike in my user name and we are in Sydney, Australia. Good luck!!!