As far as I figured out the differens between Grau Fee and Charocal is, that they are both Tibetan diluted ... but Grau Fee diluted by the Fee factor (which I haven't figured out which exact gene it is) and Charocal diluted by Silver (international symbol "Dil")
The Fee factor is autosomal dominant.
Silver is sexlinked dominant.
To reproduce a Grau Fee, you need to cross a Falb Fee with a Tibetan. It would also be possible to cross a Pearl Fee with a Tibetan, but there would be also some very light Grau Fees coming out, beside normal Grau Fees.
To reproduce a Charocal you need to cross a Silver (which can be several appearance) with a Tibetan.
As Silver is sexlinked, you best use a Silver male. Using a Silver female, you would only get male Charocals.
Both, Grau Fee and Charocal, can be also pied/tuxedo, as these factors are independant to the underlying color.