If you have the time.......google "quisenberry fool proof house", then spend some time boning up on what he has to say about things. Some of this is physics as much as anything. As true today as it was back then.
My guess is you may discover some errors made in your housing that is contributing to your problems. This stuff was all known 100 years ago.
BTW, I place no judgements on anyone when they do things out of ignorance (read lack of knowledge). A person doesn't know what they don't know. Its what happens after they become informed that matters.
But even with all that, if it's -50F actual temps outside, I would not fault anyone for putting in a heater.