I don't go by a recipe but here is how to do it Southern style.
Get you a cast iron skillet and and put about 2 tablespoons of oil in it and put it in the oven on 450f for a few minutes while you mix up your batter. Take about 2-3 cups self rising cornmeal, an egg, and enough milk to make a thick batter. you DO NOT want it runny. A little thicker than pancake batter. I also put a couple tablespoons of sugar in mine. After your skillet gets good and hot, and that is VERY important or your corn bread will stick. Quickly pour the excess hot oil into batter and stir quickly a couple times, then pour it all back in your HOT skillet. Cook on 450 for about 15 minutes and then cut it down to about 425f for the remaining 20 minutes or so. It will be firm when its ready and brown in the middle on top. DELICIOUS!