So I have 2 DD, one 5, can talk circles around most people.. Very efficative commnicater.. DD who just turned 3 is stutering... So called speech therapy a few months ago.. She's had part assement at daycare center.. ( They travel to preschool's) Anywhoo, got to meet with her today.. Her assement is still not done cause DD is sooo shy... And won't talk too much in front of her... So got our homework, it's mostley things we already do, but with other DD involved... We really need to carve the time for one . on one time.. Think that would help way more.. 10 min One on One, has got to be better then a family venture... Please keep in mind we live in sticks and hubby is away al ot.. So really the whole thing depends on me, working full time, etc.. Like so many other familes.. How/Where do I carve the time from.. She needs it, I need to give it.. With other DD5 helping us.. It's just not quality time.. Can I ask a sitter to take DD 5 with little sis stuck here with me, The back lash would be aweful.. As both kids love sitter.. And I really can't afforsd $10.00 per night of homework time for little one.. Thinking maybe to pay sitter to come here for 1 hr. to help me per night.. Then more then one thing gets done? I don't know... What to most we'll say single families do when one needs extra help? (I"m just saying single fam. cause hubbie works long hrs, and really I'm in it alone... Would love to hear what other people do, make older one do ?????? For 10 min, and not interupt, she's only 5.... Am open to any suggestions/stories... I'm sure I will learn from it all Thank-You for your time!!