Oh please don't feel bad! They ARE attractive to us - because they ARE intelligent, beautiful and share many of the same feelings that we have.
Unfortunately that is what makes them NOT PETS. Long term care of an intelligent UNdomesticated species is a lot more complicated than people think.
If everyone who loved them rescued, thought BEFORE they jumped in and learned how to work with a wild animal's needs, then there wouldn't be any in rescues and sanctuaries.
You asked First. You ROCK. The bird or birds you save will be better for it. Even helping MORE people discover all the birds already in rescue that need them is a terrific thing to do. Volunteering with a group will get you handling experience you should have, and tips you should know before getting a parrot.
Good clubs and rescue groups have a lot of good things to teach.
Yes, you can and do bond to birds of all sizes and ages. Yes, many of them are actually fairly problem free. If you account for being well... parrots.
It's a lot like dogs. People who want a dog that doesn't bark, shed, dig, poop, chew, chase, scavenge - need stuffies not dogs.
Parrots are wild animals, they're gonna scream sometimes, in most cases. They sometimes bite, some more often than others. Abused, abandoned, neglected, poisoned, thrown, shaken, beaten, locked in basements and closets - yeah those birds sometimes have problems.
I have one of each, Romeo was never beaten but locked in a closet for a year. He rarely if ever bites and is exceedingly sweet. Calvin... He was shaken, beaten, locked in a tiny galvanized cage ( lead poisoning) in a basement for years, hit with sticks, sprayed with cold water from a hose, thrown. We were his sixth home. He came with no words but shut up and stop it, it hurts, quit it. He lunged, panicked, bit and screamed. He feared perches, sticks, blankets, water spray, sinks, hands and well, anything new.
Today he talks about how he "loves Laura", greets her by name, says good boy and good bird and love you, and sings llittle mumbly ditties - he's the birdy birdy BIRDY BIRD. He steps up, transfers on command, will step onto a Ring of vines to be moved or lifted. Laura can let him kiss her face and can hold and pet him. He takes spray baths without fear and plays with toys.
Remember what I said about wild, intelligent and of their own mind? He was supposed to be mine. I'm retired. I'm home ALL day. I feed him, clean up after him, sing to him, read to him. My name is Chere. Not Laura. He LOVES Laura. Laura is gone 40 + hours a week.
They love who they love. They are individuals, with their own will. It's another reason they're not PETS. Dogs don't usually decide other humans in the home are rivals. You get a puppy you have a reasonable expectation that it will love you. It's NOT true of parrots. They decide, not us.
I had to take ONLINE CLASSES to learn to handle a fearful, 12 year old Moluccan Cockatoo that doesn't love me. He does love me, as a flock member. But I'm not it.
We've come to an understanding in the last three years. If he were healthy he'd live perhaps another 70 years. I don't know how long we'll have. His liver is permanently damaged. My daugher KNOWS she'll inherit him in all likelihood.
Parrots are a joy, if you learn to live with them properly, if you accept who they are. Most people want them to be pets. Most people don't think about DECADES of life with them. And then bad things happen.
You thought before you acted. There's nothing but good in that. You probably saved some lives just by that gesture. You can continue to do good.
There's a yahoo group that's worth joining just to read and study other people's problems with parrots. It's called ParrotBAS or PBAS. It's the online course I took. It's a great resource if you run across someone with a poor relationship with their bird. It's a great place to learn about how to think around common problems with parrots.
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