Indian fantails are in the oriental class of pigeons. Don't get me wrong I love my male birds...but they are little buttsAnd after all every bird is different and has their own personality. So it doesn't surprise me that your female is distant, she is just who she is. Along with every person as their own preference. I always preferred pigeons over doves(I've had both) because I feel they are smarter, spunky, sweeter (when they are sweet), and have more personality. However I'm sure their are many out their who would disagree! Just depends on whatever YOU connect with most as a person! This all just based of my experience and I like everyone have my own biases and so its just my own individual point of view!
I did not mention I hand raised my male...I picked him up at one of my old jobs as a barely feathered squab. He would have been killed if I didnt take him so thats how I ended up with my first pigeon. We bought the female at an auction and I have no idea how she was raised. She is so beautiful and I love her so, but she really seems to disdain me! Maybe because her boyfriend is still in love with me..