First of all, "mean and rude" is just your personal opinion and not fact based. It's all in the eye of the beholder. Secondly, telling someone they're a "big softie" isn't an insult in most circles, but since you took it as one, you I must've hit a personal nerve. Third, she is a softie. Poor kid is always taking up for the bad guy in her post - but, at least she stood up to defend herself to me. Good girl! Unfortunately, there are way too many people out there who will want to take advantage of her for it, so warning her to be cautious is a kindness. Finally, your sweet comments to me were far meaner and ruder than anything I said but, then, I never pretended to be anything I'm not.