Majority of folks have always been like that
You're probably right. Depressing, isn't it? I think I didn't notice because my parents were that way (ex-husbands, too), so I thought it was normal, even though I wasn't entirely comfortable with that lifestyle. But, now that I'm older and all of those influences on my life are gone, I seem to have reverted to being like my paternal grandmother's family, who were Quaker settlers; simple farmers with basic needs. My mother would be horrified to see me now! Back in the 1980's, we got a big family van and my mother's reaction was, "Oh my god, my daughter drives a truck." If she could only see me now, in my 14 year old GMC Sonoma pick 'em up, with peeling clear coat and chicken stickers all over the tail gate .. not to mention a bed filled with 50lb bags of organic chicken feed. And, the chickens!! Plus, me carting wheel barrow loads of chicken poop around to spread in the the garden.

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