Have you tried cornering them so you can pick them up? While I'm new to chicken keeping, it didn't take long for me to figure out how the pick them up so the couldn't flap their wings. I center my hands over each wing, and then tuck them under one arm like a football and my hand supporting the breast. This way it leaves one hand free for gentle petting and to offer treats. I did this with my Red Star that we bought when she was 16wks old. It didn't take her long to figure out being picked up wasn't such a bad thing lol
I will work on that for sure. Some will eat out of my hand. Thanks for the pointers!!!!