Hi Sseabass,
I think you have done really well to gain the trust of your emu. They really do respond to touch; they love being stroked all the way along their back. I believe the pet emu enjoys attention and can form a strong bond with the person who puts in the time and effort.
I have learned such a lot since my girl became so ill. It was very difficult to find a vet who was interested enough to give advice and it was even more dificult to find a vet (or anyone) who knew something about them. I finally found a vet who suggested I use a dog wormer 'Advocate' for over 25kg dogs. It was easy to administer because it's absorbed through the skin. So you just part some feathers (on the thigh area) and squirt the liquid onto the skin. I repeated the dose 2 weeks later then again 2 weeks after that. I will be worming her regularly every 4 months from now on. I'm now quite sure it was a worm infestation that caused her condition to seriously deteriorate, because it has only been since the worming that she has improved. She is now looking interested in food again, she eats without being coaxed (most of the time) and she does not appear as 'depressed'. She is now walking around the place like she used to including finding her way into the garage where I prepare the food for the other animals. She has not done that for 6 months !!
I believe that a pet emu needs attention and affection, just like any other pet. As you have experienced too, it is a lot easier to monitor their condition when you can get close to them and feel their condition through the feathers. Prior to her becoming ill, she was a big, strong bird with palpable muscle and flesh covering her ribs. She lost at least 1/3 of her body weight overall and being able to feel her ribs so easily was a real worry ! When she was lying down, I sometimes helped her when she went to get up. I could feel how light she had become. She was skeletal !
I monitor her closely and spend time with her every day. When she was in top form she roamed around our property with a royal elegance and I'm hoping she will return to that form again soon.
I have always been able to walk next to her with my hand resting lightly on her back or over her back if I need to direct her in a certain direction like when I have walked her home after she wandered onto the neighbours property. Her diet has been varied but when she was in top form, she ate lots of thawed peas. I'd buy frozen peas in bulk and thaw them as required. She would eat up to 1kg of peas per day, and she would also eat some of the chicken feed and she likes grated apple and she sometimes pinches the cat and dog kibble. She also eats earth worms and bugs.
This weekend, she finally ate some peas again, so I know she is getting better ! Good luck with your lovely girl. I think the importance of worming emus should be something more people are aware of. I would never have known it was necessary. If I had known, I could have saved her months of misery. The emus in the wild (such as outback Australia) must have a stronger resistance to parasites/worms and therefore they survive without anthelmintics. The more farm bred they are, clearly their resistance is weaker.