why the devil are you all up so early! I mean me... why the devil am I up so early!?
Mom,
IT can be hell and torture on a person to leave their parent in an elder/rehab care facility. The skin check is necessary. They're looking for sores that may be there from your mom laying in the same position for to long.periods. They have to know. It seems very cold hearted and cruel, but that is a necessary evil. I would think sponge baths would be allowed. I can understand the shower schedule, but I would think she'd be able to sponge bath, or you sponge bath her. Speak to the admin. If you do not like what you get there, with admin I mean, then look at what other facility medicare will cover her 3 week stay in. Medicare covered for my dad to recieve daily nurses at the house. Of course, he had me or my mom there 24-7, and he was on a vancomiacyn pic for a month combating an infection. Had his first heart attack during that time too. BUT, he was always attended too, never alone so we were able to do that. I know this is probably not an option for you since you need to work and the kids are in school. If I were closer, I'd gladly take shifts to help her be home.
Mom,