To come from the other end of the spectrum (as I see a lot of people that were born and raised into these ways, for which I am forever jealous) I was born a city girl and raised up much in the fashion of the "Deer in headlights" on where our food comes from. We went through many trends with my mom, from eating health food, to becoming vegetarian because all animals were slaughtered and not needed in our diet, to back to "regular" eating. Well, my parents ended in divorce and I lived with my father who was used to home cooked dinner not done by himself. From age 14 until age 18, me and my brother ate fast food, for breakfast, lunch and dinner. I am amazed we didn't get obese. I felt lazy, gross, and gorged everytime I ate, but hey it was better than fending for ourselves!
I met DH, who was grown in the way much like me, minues the 4 years of fast food eating. He ate fast food occassionally, but really perfered to eat food at home. He opened me to the idea of having a garden, which I thought never exceeded zuchinni and tomatoes. We made a huge garden last summer, and my first thought was "Well, as long as you take care of it" but found myself getting more and more into gardening. DH always wanted chickens, and I kept telling him no.
I don't know how it happened, but I found myself going more towards finding out where my food came from. After seeing Food Inc & Monsanto patents the pig, I needed to change my ways. Now I'm the one thinking of a hobby farm, and raising our own meat birds and more.
So ignorance is just because of under education, however rudeness is just how that person is! I would never think to say "how can you do that to those poor birds!", but back then I may have not been to willing to do it myself. I remember when DH started hunting, I hated the idea of him going out and killing an animal. I know a lot of hunters just go out for the sport. I told him he could hunt as long as whatever he killed we ate. On his first deer I even stayed up til 1am, helping him process it!
I taught myself how to can, and am actually showing a few friends this week how to can because they had no one in their family to show them how. It's gratifying to me to a whole new degree. I am really glad we found this path in life, all because I stumbled on the education of it all.
My husband kinda laughs at me now, because at first I told him we needed to live in the city. Over the years, I've told him we could move farther and farther from the city until recently I told him I don't care If I have to commute 2 hours for a job, If I love the place I live thats all that matters!!