Though my daughter, at 4, used to love to watch so I let her. I thought it was good for her to know where her food came from.
Once when we were walking through a dept store by a display of fur coats, my daughter stopped and touched one of the coats. She looked up at me and said, "These feel just like bunny rabbits!" 2 elderly women were standing nearby and they both went "awwww". My daughter asked me, "Are they made from bunnies Mommy?" (both elderly women melted) and when I replied "Yes they are from bunnies", she looked at me with those big, gorgeous, blue eyes and said, "Boy I wish I had the meat!" at which point the elderly women looked horrified, I laughed, and then decided it was time we left the store.
What can I say? I make a mean BBQ rabbit!
I laughed too as my daughter would say the same thing but about rabbit tacos! I feel the same way. I have a 3 month old, a 3 yo and a 7 yo and when we process and animal there *is* a slaughter party as with it's pig there's chicharron (skin cracklings) to eat and lard to collect for tortillas and tamales (we only use a little and it's better than Crisco) and when we kill a goat there's tenderloin to roast immeidatley for tacos. Everyone comes over and there's food to eat cooked outdoors and then everyone eats their fill and takes home a nice package of fresh, no hormone, no antibiotic, humanely raised and quickly slaughtered pork, goat, beef, chicken. Everyone wins.
When it's chickens the kids pick up the feathers that go flying and generally play in the area and make nuisances of themselves.
I got into farming vegetables and animal husbandry so that my daughters would have a good work eithic and healthy food and know where the food comes from and the work and effort that goes into it. If we are going to eat meat that means killing too....
The concept of pets is also somewhat new as a pet is a luxury most people did not have in their homes of origin so this may be the first or second generation with a pet cat or dog. At home pets are either work animals or food.