But see, this ISN'T life...this is an internet forum. People tend to act differently and throw their normal manners out the door on internet forums. Without proper moderation things can get really ugly really fast. I have seen a few tries at unmoderated forums. It got frightening....even so far as death threats. I assume the individual moderators are allowed to do as they see fit. It appears the one who deleted yours saw fit to delete it. This site strives to remain family friendly. I know it takes a LOT of work on the part of the mods to do that. No matter what they do I am certain they do it at least trying to keep this site as clean and wholesome as they can.