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Chat with other BYC members nearby using the links in my signature, below (turn your phone to landscape to see them).Make yourself at home and enjoy the forums.
I, too, spent a long time lurking before joining. For me, it took a great deal of self restraint because there were so many times I wanted to jump in and say something.
I hope you will find it as enjoyable as I do to FINALLY be able to be part of the discussions. Welcome to BYC!