Here are some of my thoughts.
Possibly the buckets that you are using are low quality plastic. Try to purchase different type/kind. The disposable ones will usually be of lesser quality plastic.
Second option may solve situation.
Drill your hole in bucket. When you are about to screw in the nipple, heat up the area with a heat gun, or hair dryer. Not to the point of melting, but to where the plastic is warm and feels like more pliable. This will allow plastic to stretch and form better, rather than be under tension, leading to cracking in time.
Third option if you are up to it. This would require a hands on practice if you are up to it. Practice on the buckets that you are to throw out.
Use a soldering iron to make the hole. While the hole is still quite fresh and hot, screw in the nipple.
You would have to do this outdoors in a breeze since the smoke from the melting plastic is not good to breathe. The hole opening would result in a thicker wall.
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