I also don't make pets out of my cockerels;  they need to move away from me, and generally get out of my way as I walk 'through' them.  A cockerel who acts too interested in me at an early age, often tends to grow into a jerk, IMO.  As the boys are growing, I observe their behavior, towards me, and towards the pullets and hens.  It's good to have choices, and I do try to pick the cockerels that behave well and look good.  Last fall the wrong Chantie male stayed, for a while.  He was too aggressive with the pullets and hens, and is now in the freezer.  This year I hope to do better!
Mary