How did you get through a break up???

[DTchickens]

I started to think of all the things i could do since i was single, which being in a relationship with her held me back on. So i started working out for one (i enjoy working out though some don't

), going out and doing more things i enjoyed like fishing, hunting, etc. I ended up getting back together with her, as we love each other, but you can bet things were settled and fixed before we got back together again.

-Daniel.

PS. Only a teen, and feel like an old man writing that. We're very serious though, have known her for 5 years and been together near two steady.

PSS.. Guess i should go find my walker now.

 

[sfw2]

Atta girl!!! You're going to be fine!

If you need chick flick ideas, PM me - DD19 must have EVERY Sandra Bullock, Meg Ryan, Julia Roberts and Reese Witherspoon movie ever made! LOL

 

[valentinebaby]

Go buy yourself a new ring!

 

[Attack Chicken]

Quote:
I know how ya feel on that one!


I just talk it over with friends( just like your doing

)

after crying my eyes out. They usually help me get through the rough times. So far I'm staying single for quiet a while!

 

[MagsC]

Hey....sfw2, you gave me an idea for a new post!!

This does help to hear what everyone else has done, a LOT.

 

[SoCalChick]

Time is an amazing healer! You were proably selling yourself short and you deserve a FAR better man!!!!

And i def agree with valentinebaby - go buy yourself a new ring!

 

[MagsC]

I have to fix my "childrens" ring the kids gave me a few years ago. That is what I need to be wearing now.

 

[Opa]

It will get better in time and you will come to understand that you are in a better place. When my 2nd wife and I divorced I was devastated. Now, on the rare occasion that I see her, I can only think "Thank you Jesus".

 

[RHewittJr]

Stay busy. Keeps your mind occupied and remember out of sight is out of mind. Get rid of reminders at least until you are better. Friends and family will enjoy seeing more of you so hang out with them some.

 

[redhen]

Quote:
Yes sweetie..it really does heal. I've been so devastated and lost before.. I cant even begin to explain.
I was with him for 8 years when he wanted to split...
It was so hard..because they almost are your whole life..and you dont know what to do with yourself when they are gone. You just feel so alone..
Its real hard at first....real hard....but try to keep busy and remember that you deserve better. Because you DO...
and also try to remember that life is like a wheel....it gets bad sometimes...but it ALWAYS gets better. Always...

then something else crappy will happen in your life..... but then it will get better again.... you just gotta have the fortitude to stay strong and get past the bad times... just keep telling yourself that your hurt cant last foever...think about yourself when your 70.... will this person still be so important to you then? Most likely not... (even though thats hard to see right now...)
Anyways..sorry to ramble...but thats how i keep myself going when things get tough.. ... more hugs to you...