How did you get through a break up???

[Boyd]

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Girly, if you didn't live so far away, me and the wife would take you out to our fav dance club. We're not 20 somethings, so no worries

I can't dance that fast anymore. But the folks you meet at the more mature dance type of clubs are more laid back and ready to talk and make friends... not a meat market!

 

[debilorrah]

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I heard that song and I IMMEDIATELY thought of you. I had to post it or it would have bugged me all day.

 

[MagsC]

Boyd, you might laugh, but I have never been to a dance club in my life,lol.

(Might be interesting!)
Deb, I am going to see if I can get that song on I-tunes, it is SO appropriate.

Today hasnt been the best or the worst I guess. He wants to talk but my mind is made up and I see no benefit in it only it making me hurt more.

I will talk to him again, if and when I am good and ready.

 

[Southernbelle]

This is the first thing I thought of - She Let Herself Go by George Strait

Hope you feel better soon. After a while you'll look back and see that you did the right thing. Cry when you need to, write in a journal, try to get out and meet people... Think of all the fun things you can do, things he didn't want to do, indulge yourself!

 

[MagsC]

Southernbelle, I am downloading that song at this very moment!!

THEN when I am not watching sappy movies, eating ice cream or chocolate this weekend, I am going to treat myself to a bubble bath and listen to all these type of songs!!!!

 

[debilorrah]

Mags I wish you were closer! I have wine.

 

[MagsC]

You must be reading my mind!!

I am sitting here with a glass of homemade peach wine.(My uncle, aunt and cousins make it, along with a lot of other kinds.)

 

[rhoda_bruce]

Talk??? Hmmm. Okay. I'd hold off too. My sister always say, "if you want a different solution, you need to try a different plan." I think if he wants to 'talk,' he isn't finished with you. (at this point think of Cher in 'Moonstuck'....the priest is in the confessional and you see his hands and he is saying,"reflect on your life Loretta").

 

[MagsC]

Sigh. Okay. I have been able to get through the weekend without being too upset so far. I kind of hold my emotions at arms length and get on with the things I have to do.
Plus the movies, ice cream,chocolate and drank almost the whole bottle of peach wine.

I am not going to be on here the rest of the day, but will check back tomorrow and continue as usual with my posting.(BYC is the best!

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Oh, I posted this in the incubating section but I had 11 chicks hatch out!! Another distraction I am thankful for.

 

[Boyd]

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Mags, if you need more, gimme a call. I am good for stupid human tricks. Ask any of the girlies on here. I humiliate myself daily

Always good to laugh at that is..