How did you get through a break up???

[sfw2]

Mags,

Just checking in with you to say "hi", and

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That's great news about the new fuzzy butts!

 

[MagsC]

thanks all.

Okay. I finally DID talk to him this morning. Like I said, when I felt ready. He wants another chance but he is going to have to do some major sucking up to get it.

I know that sounds awful, I need to forgive and forget I suppose but I just cant right now. And at least I was completely honest with him about how I felt.
Yes, the little chicks made things a lot easier, a good distraction.

 

[krcote]

Be Careful....

 

[MagsC]

Being careful is definitely on the agenda.

 

[debilorrah]

Mags, I am gonna stick my neck out and ask what the break up was about. Tell me to blow it out my butt or PM me or whatever. Just curious....

 

[MagsC]

Nope deb, thats fine. It was about being taken completely for granted, nothing appreciated. I came third, often fourth in priority. Which, YES, that may happen SOME of the time and once in a while MOST of the time. I can accept that when it has to be as long as I know that he still loves me. He doesnt have to say it always, actions often speak louder.
So anyway. I am just not too anxious to "rush back into his arms" so to speak.
I wont go into all the little details, it would take years.

 

[debilorrah]

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There can be no most of the time when you are being taken advantage of. Only you know your situation... However, in a relationship, you come first with him and he comes first with you. No matter what. If you have kids and they are grown, even more so. It is not healthy to be in a relationship where you are not first.

 

[MagsC]

thank you.

 

[sonew123]

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Crap Mags I just saw this thread! Im sorry hunny. Don't let anyone take advantage of you-not in a biatchy way just get the respect you deserve and settle for nothing less Talk talk talk I can't stress that enough.

 

[MagsC]

sonew123

I appreciate it.