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When I married my husband 41 years ago, he said, "We'll always live below our means", "but, we will always have a place to live, a car and food on the table". We saved and invested, while others spent everything they made on vacations, clothes, cars and pampering. Any vacations were saved for, we always go on the cheap. We each have a credit card, but it's paid off every month. I have purchased two cars, and payed them off after no more than two years. We drive our well maintained cars till they blow up. The only debt we've ever had is a mortgage. We have owned and sold two homes to finally afford our dream home with 2 acres for our animals. We have lived here 18 years! My husband took time to learn, basic masonry, carpentry, electrical, and plumbing to take care of things around the house and do improvements. He is still working at age 63, will retire soon. He is already earning a retirement income, but likes working. He travels 3 miles to his job! After working part time 28 years I was able to retire this June. And yes, along the way we've trusted in God, give to the poor and help others in need. You just have to decide how you really want to live. To live humbly is something today's society, knows very little about.
 
I had a friend who studied finance challenge me to save 15% on all my expenses. It made me pay more attention daily. Can you change the way you do things? Living a financially sound life does not necessarily mean giving things up entirely but making smart decisions. Can you change plans or providers for insurance, phone, internet, etc? Know which local gas station has the cheapest fuel and can you get some sort of rewards card or points that make it cheaper. On average I save .60 a gallon between points and gas station selection each time I fill the tank, it adds up. Know what's on sale at the grocery store. Add coupons (I add them on my value card via an internet portal) on top of this to still buy the products you like and/or need at a better price. I am not a crazy coupon lady but save 20% on groceries on average this way. I let tourists at the grocery store use my value card and they get cheaper groceries and I earn more coupons and fuel points. What can your bank do for you? My debit card rounds up transactions to the next whole dollar, not only does it deposit the change in my savings account, but the bank matches the contribution, free money. I don't know exactly what all this "spare change" and coupons etc adds up to in the month, but I'd say close to $50. What could you do with an extra $50 or more a month?
 
Wow! I'm loving how this thread has exploded with lots of upbeat stories.

I do use a credit card. I put every single purchase on it, including medical. It allows me to track my expenses. That card earns "points" We started cashing out our points after accruing for a number of years. We take $100 in points every month, and shouldn't run out of points for such "withdrawals" for an other 8 months. We never pay credit card interest, b/c card is paid in full every month. I would never suggest that anyone use a credit card in this way unless they are so disciplined that they don't buy stuff just b/c they can, and without fail they pay the total bill in full each and every month. Credit cards can turn your financial plan into a train wreck. But used wisely, they can be a tool.

I make my own laundry detergent: Each batch lasts almost a year. So, for a couple hours work, and less than $5.oo, I have a year's worth of detergent. It also makes great tub cleaner.

We burn wood. I fill oil tank, order wood, take care of those other big expenses in the summer while price is down and while our personal income is up.

Learn how to do stuff yourself. Hubby can do electrical work, sweat a copper joint, can do basic car repairs. I love doing basic carpentry, and tile work.

Life is a life long adventure in learning. Much learning is free!
Thank y'all for all the responses. I am a current college student struggling with what I truly want to do with my life. All the money I get from my part time job goes to bills and savings. It just seems like I do not have enough time to study and work, but I would love to open my own business.

You're young yet. These hard years will pass. you'll finish your degree, and then can settle into a job and move forward. You are ahead of a lot of young folks b/c you are thinking forward to the future, and seeing life as being about more than monetary possessions.

It seems as though most of y'all commenting started out later in life being self-sufficient had a spouse to help them out. Is it realistic for a young single person to do this?

Absolutely. When I was younger, I had a co-worker who was single. She had an associate's degree. She bought her own house as a single woman. Unheard of at that time, but she did it, and did it well.

Be smart!
Get a good education, and a good job, remmber to be happy in what you have, remember that if you have your health, a close family and good freinds you basically have EVERTHING!
And remember that money come AND go but time that passes WILL NEVER come back! So use your time smartly and try to have fun from it as much you can
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Yes, every purchase should be held up to the light of day. It should be considered before completing the sale: How many hours of my life will I have to give up (working for an hourly wage) to own this? Then, ask the question: Is it really worth it? Will it actually be beneficial in my life in the long term? And finally, will this purchased item be owned by me or will it own me? Hubby often says, "I'm SO VERY GLAD WE DON"T OWN A BOAT!!!" We see folks pouring their time into tending their boats! While it may be fun to go out on a lake, down the river, or even out in the ocean, such things require more money and time commitment than we are willing to invest.

Oh, believe me, I know. I should have explained it better :p
Ya done good. glad you posted it!
 
also another lesson, (i learned the hard way) about money.

back in the days before i had chickens (or even thought about the future) i mean like 3 years ago when i was 15. i was addicted to video games, and spent ever dime i got on video games, old games, new games, systems. (i have quite the collection) but long story short i spend a lot of my money on things i did not need. just what i wanted, and the sad part is i played most of those games for maybe an hour or two, then never picked them up again.

so like others said i guess you need to balance life with play and what you want and need in life.
 
I am just loving this thread! :caf spending more time reading this than I normally would stay on a PC. All these are wonderful posts. It really did explode! :thumbsup It is nice to see so many doing what they love and feeling good about it. Young People, you can do it. We all have to start somewhere, and this post is a great place to start! :yesss:
 
This is a great thread. :thumbsup

I am still young and have a whole life ahead of me....

My parents have been very careful to raise me and all my siblings to no how to work, save money, make things, learn, etc.

As of right now I have plans on what I want to do when I get older and so far I done see college in my future.

I am very involved with our animals, so as for them dad has come as a helping hand but he has left me to make some decisions and put forth effort.

I couldn't be more thankful for the opportunity I have had and ones to come.

As far as saving money, my parents are out of debt (other than the tractor but that will be paid on by next spring), grow our own food, catch lots of our own meat, make our own cleaners/soap/laundry detergent, etc.

I am with @itsasmallfarm on catching your own meat.... We filled our freezer with fish for $150.

All of us kids have tablets but we don't just spend time in them, only used for school and looking things up.

I live in a family of 11.

And most of all God comes first in everything we do, at least I hope He does.
 
also another lesson, (i learned the hard way) about money.

back in the days before i had chickens (or even thought about the future) i mean like 3 years ago when i was 15. i was addicted to video games, and spent ever dime i got on video games, old games, new games, systems. (i have quite the collection) but long story short i spend a lot of my money on things i did not need. just what i wanted, and the sad part is i played most of those games for maybe an hour or two, then never picked them up again.

so like others said i guess you need to balance life with play and what you want and need in life.
I am so glad I was never addicted to video games, I had an older Nintendo as a kid and played pac man and dig dug but that's about it. Now on the other hand I have wasted money several times on buying $100 per dozen hatching eggs to only have two roosters hatch.
 
I have been self employed over 25 years now. I could not imagine having what I have and having the time I have if I worked for a company, I have mowed lawns and cleaned carpets and made good money at it, I always showed up and got the job done my clients loved me. Real estate broker last 14 years.

No debt no house payment except for the rentals which pay for themselves and will get paid off prior to retirement.

I was raised poor white trash, as a kid I ate rice for weeks sometimes, just rice.

I still must recognize I have white privilege, when I mowed lawns I was hired BECAUSE I was the white guy. It’s a harder hill to climb as a non white male.

I am grateful

Gary
 
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