Hubby is not doing well. long post

[Reinbeau]

Alley, you don't know me at all, I realize, but I've followed this whole thread, and I have to say, listen to that doctor who bandaged/cast your hand. I've thought from the beginning the first night in the hospital was absolutely wrong, they never, ever should have sent him home. I hope this doesn't end up with your worst fears, even if it doesn't, there was malpractice here and if you have the strength after all is said and done, I'd pursue it. I've thought all along that I wouldn't have brought him back to the same hospital - please, understand, I am not criticizing it's just that they were awful to send him away. I'm fortunate here to have access to excellent hospitals 25 miles away in Boston, not all have that option. Be strong, continue to document what's going on, it may prove useful in the end.

I hope Davey surprises all and pulls through - a dear friend of mine suffered a severe cerebral hemorrhage on her 45th birthday, because of the excellent care she got afterwards she is functioning almost 100% after being in a near-death coma for four months (she's 53 now). Miracles do happen.

 

[cockadoodlemom]

Sorry haven't posted sooner but been dealing with heart doc myself so I don't have a stroke or heart attack. Alley please don't give up on God. It doesn't seem fair all you and your children & In-laws are going thru but God does have a plan. Have you ever read Footprints In The Sand? It is a beautiful poem and this is the time that God is going to be carrying you and you will only see one set of footprints. I will continue to pray for Davy, you and the family. We all wish we could be there for you and your children. I pray that God will let you feel our friendship, prayers, and strength we are sending your way.

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Your Chicken Net Friend,
Teresa

 

[ruth]

Alley - I have not posted till now but I have been following this thread closely and have been praying for you, Davy and your family. God is a good God and answers prayers. You have many people praying for you. Talk to God - let Him know you are angry and scared - He can handle it.

Heavenly Father - hear the prayers of this young family and the community that has rallied around her. Return her husband to his family who needs him. In Jesus' name - we all pray in agreement. Amen

 

[HenHappy]

Ally, my heart is there with you and your family. At this moment, as I am typing, I am sending you such a concentration of love and caring and support that I can possibly squeese out of me. You need it more than I. I hope you can feel it. I hope the positive energy helps you. This world shows us amazing things all the time. it is your turn.

From

Dee

 

[Farmer Kitty]

Alley,

Here is the Footprints in the sand that Cockadoodlemom was refering to:

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the LORD. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonged to him, and the other to the LORD.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest time in his life.

This really bothered him and he questioned the LORD about it. "LORD, you said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only, one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me."

The LORD replied, "My precious, precious child, I love you and would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."

Here is a scene for you to look at and hopefully to help calm you. Just concentrate on the picture and relax-let the rest go just for a short time and give yourself a break.

 

[SeaChick]

Alleyoops,

I just read this thread and I am so very sorry for what you are going through. I am sending you my very best healing energy, for what its worth. Stay strong.

Stacey

 

[tiffanyh]

Alley --

You are still in my thoughts everyday. I look for your updates daily.

You tell your husband to keep fighting. Tell him you all need him. The mind in an EXTREMELY powerful force. If anything can create miracle, it is the power of the mind.

XOXO

 

[Farmer Kitty]

Alley,

How's it going today?

 

[Alleyoops25]

Well Dh is doing alittle better, amazing. He has started working his lungs more than the machine. They said if he keeps this up he might actually be coming off of it soon. This is such a relief.Yesterday didnt look so good, and now he is starting to fight back and make a little extra improvement. I cant stay on here long we have to go and get some lunch but I wanted to let you all know.

 

[Lunachick]

Yippee! See - keep the faith, we're still thinking of you and yours! Stay strong!