Husbands ultimatum

[boyswillbeboys]

In that situation, where he assaulted your daughter, no contest, I'd choose the chickens straight up.

 

[BlackBrookPoultry]

Like I said earlier, this is about more than just chickens. None of us know the whole story here, but if he's so frustrated that he's acting out in violence, you should not be together. Your child(ren) should not he subjected to what's going on there.

 

[JW12]

Like I said earlier, this is about more than just chickens. None of us know the whole story here, but if he's so frustrated that he's acting out in violence, you should not be together. Your child(ren) should not he subjected to what's going on there.

X's 2 !!

 

[heartsizedfarm]

Yeah it sounds like he has far ranging issues and anger management problems, and he has just chosen chickens as his battlefield.

If your marriage was otherwise blissful and caring I would certainly say find another home for the chickens. Sometimes you just have to make the sacrifice. But it doesn't sound like that is so.

File an official complaint with the police, protect your family, see a lawyer, protect
yourself financially, see a social worker, or your kids guidance counsellor, protect yourself emotionally, change the locks, protect yourself physically, and kick him to the curb.

Good luck with the hatch!!!!

 

[Highcotton]

I tried sitting down with him but it didn't go well.
he started shouting (nothing new) and went to crush the eggs I have incubating.
luckily the authorities are working to remove him from me and the kids as he was arrested for assaulting my 9 year old daughter.
and he wonders why I spend so much time with the chickens....

It doesn't sound like the chickens are the real problem.It would not make a difference if you got rid of the chickens.

 

[walkerbrens]

I was once given an ultimatum....him or the dog. I made the wrong decision and returned the dog....I should have kept the dog and let the husband go!!!!!! Good luck I your decision...not easy but keep yourself safe!

 

[Tyaloria]

Thank you everyone for replying.
I've made contact with relevant agencies and fingers crossed it will all be resolved soon.

xx Natalie xx

 

[Trefoil]

"And if it is the will of God that you should suffer, is it better to for doing right than doing wrong?" If it is the will of God that you should suffer you need to get a different God.

 

[Tyaloria]

"And if it is the will of God that you should suffer, is it better to for doing right than doing wrong?" If it is the will of God that you should suffer you need to get a different God.

I like that answer