I AM SO MAD!!!

[SoccerMomof7]

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My boys don't want to see my ex husband and up until now I would beg him to come and see them. But I am tired of forcing him to be a dad. Legally it is my holiday and I don't care if he comes to the party but he is not taking my boys that weekend.

 

[SoccerMomof7]

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Great post, Nice to read something that is not filled with revenge and hatred. Especially personal problems on what should be a fun happy place to talk CHICKENS.
Funny how easy it is to critisize the other party, when you should be looking inward at why you would of ever made such poor decisions, and move on. Be a better person than the one that got into the situation to begin with.

Dilly

I was venting, if you didn't like my post nobody made you read it and respond. I am sorry my venting bothered you, but next time just go to the next post.

Something I wanted to say is that my ex is not a nice guy. He didn't just screw around on me, he used to beat the crap out of me. He almost killed my 3 year old when he was 2 weeks old. He also would be rotting away in prison right now but I didn't want my boys to grow up with their dad in prison. I was the bigger person, but he still didn't grow up. Somedays I feel like not testifying against him was the biggest mistake of my life, and others I know I wouldn't want them to grow up with him in prison. I made excuses for this man for years on why he didn't pick them up to them. I know my boys will see their father for his true colors and I am waiting for that day but now I try to get them to go calmly to their dads but I usually have to chase, hold and force into the car to get them to go. THey say he is mean to them, and so is his new wife. I explain to my kids they are lucky to have 2 moms and 2 dads and it still doesn't help. I am from a divorce family and it was rough on us kids.

AN with my step kids. They are like my own and believe me I am soooo happy she is leaving town. I am been these kids mom (only mom) for a long time. I am ready for her to be gone so these kids can have some stability. I love them as if they were my own. My husband is disabled and I full support all 7 kids at 24 years old. I am being the better person, it's just very exhausting

 

[Dilly]

Unfortunately another lesson in life is when you post on public forums, you will get replies that not always are what you want to hear.
Just opinions either way.

Dilly

 

[SpottedCrow]

Hugs, SoccerMom.

 

[Acre of Blessings]

Do you live in the same town? How far apart are you from them?

 

[Pelican49]

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Pick your battles and let this one go. Since your baby is only turning 3, he won't know it's his actual Birthday. Have a party for him the weekend before, or the weekend after. Make it a big deal doing something HE loves to do. I don't know about the "Holiday" thing. I'm not sure the courts would consider a Birthday a holiday.

 

[SoccerMomof7]

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He moves about every couple of months but right now we live in the same town. My boys don't even know this man. Keyton will always look at my husband as his father, we moving in here when he was 6 months old. My husband now was the only male role model, and they are close, Keyton is (Step) Daddy's little man. I don't know I know I will do what is best for the boys, thanks all who let me vent for a moment. Sometimes is gets exhausting not having anyone to talk to, I have my girls, but I don't vent about the other parents to them.