I cant believe its been a year!!

[gpamela3499]

EBWY I don't know what is going on but your in my prayers. You sound like your under some kind of stress. Try not to worry just remember that everything will work out like it is meant to be. I wish you were not on the other side of the world from us. Please try to find some way to contact us. I know that you and I don't have a lot of family support. I know this is your 1st baby too. I wish I was there physically but I will be there spiritually.


Mrs. Turbo I am thinking of you. Let us know how things are going.

OMG

I thought I was next and everyone is skipping in front.

Oh well 1 week till my due date I am still not really ready. I have a doctors app. tomorrow. We will see how things are going then. I guess I will getting an exam this time.

 

[gpamela3499]

We need to get another line up going for due dates:



gpamela3499 due July 15th

 

[ebwy]

unless someone here has a house available to rent cheaply in the UK (I have no passport) then there's nothing you can do.

I'll be released from hospital on monday (baring complications), and neither set of "grandparents" (not one lot deserves the title...) is willing to let me and the baby stay with them despite having nowhere to go.

social housing can't help because there isn't housing enough to go around everyone who needs it since last year's recession.
private lettings ... we've been trying all year but no-one will let us rent a home from them because we don't have a job (fiance lost his job in the recession)

so ... we're sunk, basically.
I get released with a fresh caesarian section wound and a newborn, but have nowhere to go and won't be able to do anything much anyway.

 

[agnes_day]

that is horrible! i dont know how it works over there, but over here...if the mom is homeless they call child services! i would lie and tell the hospital that you do have somewhere to go..i am so sorry

 

[ebwy]

oh, fiance's "mum" already phoned social services ... poor baby isn't born yet and she's already phoning the childsnatchers... "I told them you'd be a really good mum" she said, like that makes a difference to them...

nice, eh?

 

[agnes_day]

well, what are you going to do?!
can you get in to a womens shelter?

 

[ebwy]

nope, the shelters here are for women fleeing physically abusive relationships.

At worst, I'll have to take Arwyn to a friend to be safe.

 

[agnes_day]

wow...that is an awful situation.
will your friend let you stay as well?

 

[Robin'sBrood]

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Oh my, this is killing me!

I wish you were in the States, you'd have a room in my house in a heartbeat! Surely the hospital won't kick you and the baby out into the streets...

 

[Shadowhills Farm]

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Oh my gosh....that is terrible! My thoughts are with you and hope you get much needed help