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When I was in a program through Kaiser for morbidly obese patients, there were other patients with similar issues, knee problems in particular, or patients who were even wheelchair bound for a variety of issues (one lady I remember had MS). The weight can make knee problems worse, and the knee problems inhibit your ability to get enough exercise & the two problems compound one another. You get stuck in a circle.... I was in that same circle, and I feel for you. The program facilitator told our group about some "Chair-obics" or "Chair-dancing" video or something like that. I think I remember her saying it is available on Amazon.com, and perhaps you can find it if you Google it. Basically, it is good exercise/activity for patients with limited lower body mobility. It might be helpful for you.

You said you do not own a food scale... I bought a digital one on E-bay for less than $20. It runs on AA batteries, and it measures in whole grams and in ounces. It also is excellent or weighing my girls' eggs every day. You would invest $20 for your chickens' health... invest $20 for your own. I promise you, if you get one and you use it, it'll save your life.

Get in the habit of tracking your food intake on a site such as thedailyplate.com (there are others).

I ended up having gastric bypass surgery and was once a size 24 who could barely walk. I've been a size 6 for two years now and trained last year to run the American River Parkway Half Marathon (the only reason I didn't run is I didn't get my entrance fee in on time & the registration for the run was already closed by the time I had the money to register). But the gastric bypass surgery is only a tool (many people mis-perceive it as a fix-all, and it's not). No matter what tool you use... Jenny Craig, Weight Watchers, gastric bypass, the Lap Band, the important thing to remember is that they are all tools to get you to better health. And a tool only works if you use it correctly.

I learned SO much about my health and how nutrition affects every aspect of it, even my mood. I weigh and measure. I record and write down and journal. I exercise. When my knees hurt and I feel like I can't do much, I've found that there is a LOT I can do on an inflatable exercise ball and a pair of 5-pound dumbbells that has little to no impact at all on my knees. Or even sitting on the couch. I do leg-lifts sitting on my bed at night.

You can do it... it may feel hugely overwhelming, but start with something small tasks and goals for yourself. For example, take one day and tell yourself you will not eat any white carbs that day, that all of your carbohydrates will come from whole, natural sources. White carbs include, of course, processed sugars and all the products that contain them, as well as white potatoes (sweet potatoes are a different story and are better for you), rice (limit brown rice--it can make you bloated), pastas, breads, crackers, etc. If you get a hankering for some spaghetti, you can get a spaghetti squash that will feed 6 people at the store for only a few nickels more than it would cost you to buy enough regular spaghetti to cook for 6 people.

Sometimes I mess up and eat poorly, eat things I shouldn't. I often pay a price for it when I do. It's there to remind me how hard it was to do anything when I was heavy and how much damage I was doing to myself. If I eat something high in fat and/or sugar now, I develop a very uncomfortable set of symptoms as a result of the gastric bypass. Some people think that's bad, but I think it's good if I look at it like this: If I ate something high in fat or sugar when I was heavy, before I had this surgery, I still did damage to my body and compromised my health--the result just was not an immediate visceral reaction. I was just slowly killing myself with ice cream and those fried cheese things from A&W.

My hope is to talk to people and share what I've done and what I've been through because you can learn from my experience without having to put your body through the risk of surgery. I don't for one second regret what I've done--it saved my knees and saved my life. But you gotta weigh, you gotta measure, you gotta keep track, and you gotta get SOME kind of exercise, even if you have limited mobility. If your knees are an issue, lay in the bed and do straight leg lifts -- you don't even use your knees. Use your lower ab muscles. It will feel like you are dying at first, but after a while you can do more and more of them.

If you have health insurance, see if it covers physical therapy and ask your ortho to send you for some PT. Ask the therapist for good weight loss exercises that are safe for your condition. You got it in you.

As my high-tech redneck hubby says... "Git r dun."
 
Thank you for your story! (And being someone else up at 4:15am EST)

I've somewhat started some goals...right now I think my previous attempts at dieting - or rather diet tracking - started off bad because I was trying to balance two things - changing my eating habits AND tracking my eating habits. Apparently I can't do both right off, because I get too frustrated and quit. So, this time, I'm changing my eating habits first. I'm paying more attention to what is going into my mouth, and looking for things to keep me happy and satisfied. So far, so good. I've even found a way to confound my leftover food snacking - by making something specifically I can eat out of the fridge and leaving it there for snacking.

If I'm still happy with how they are doing in a week, I'll start trying to track my intake. If I get frustrated with myself, I'll step back again - to just paying attention to what I'm eating. I'll keep trying to step up to tracking, but if I get just eating better foods down, I think I'll be on a good foundation to fall back on.

I do plan to get a scale today to at least start messing with in the kitchen - to redefine what portions are. I won't beat myself up or restrict myself based on what it says yet, I'll just let it tell me what X weight of a serving of Y looks like. If tracking goes well, I'll use it to start measuring out my foods.

Hee hee - I've gotten an ok to do some leg exercises - specifically straight leg lifts and side straight leg lifts. The knees have been hateful since I was a 135lb twig, but the extra weight can't help either. I don't have a chance of being a runner (unless someone fixes the ankles and hips and all that), but I think being able to walk for a long time in proper footwear is a reasonable goal for me.

One thing I'm looking forward to when the knee is healed enough is walking at work. Our building is set up to do "laps", and 3 laps = 1 mile. A LOT of employees take advantage of it, including my team leader. I started walking with her, but then blew that ligament out, but once I'm up to it again, I'll start walking with her again (course starting lower - she does 4 laps at lunch, I'll probably start at 1).

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Good going guys!

Man, its tough with me, love those carbs! Bread and crackers, yummy and its not easy to do with other people in the family needs it more than I do.

Well I have to keep in mind what it is going in my mouth. I had to take some painkillers last night because of my muscles ache so bad. Scatic nerve was acting up too. I suck at exercising, too much muscle pain that it would literally scream.

I'm an emotional eater and sometimes I would eat and talk and not knowing what I've got on my plate at good resturaunts. I love lettuce salads with veggies. Hubby loves to take me out and its hard to pick from the menu.
 
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I lkie to roast them with honey and balsamic viniger,,just put some on them.toss in a bowl,throw on a cookie sheet and bake,,very good!
 
Wooo!!! The scale budged! Five pounds, and the pants are fitting looser!

Been just chowing on the meats, cheese, and good oil type things, fresh veggies, and sticking with simple "ingredient" food. I'm going with the Atkins type thing, but also of a "if I should make the ingredients in a lab, I'm not eating it."
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Got some steel cut oats this morning, because I've been wanting something like that - a grain or bread or something. I'll make them up tonight for breakfast tomorrow
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