In my case the media doesn't help either! I stopped listening to the scanner years ago but then one day a "friend" caled to let me know there was a huge explosion and was DH OK? Ugh! First off if there was just an explosion he's probably a little busy right now! He can't call me and tell me he's OK!! And I can't call to see if he's OK He's doing his job!!
People simply don't get it.
So I turn on the TV - bad idea! The news showed the explosion and there in the midst was a close up from a helicopter of DHs helmet melted into the asphalt!!! Yep, melted! They got such great camera's I could read the number clearly off the back of the helmet! I knew it was his! The news said no one was killed.... truly that is small comfort because not dead can be an iffy thing in some cases....
That was the "Your husband has been hurt" call. It was amazing that he wasn't more hurt than he had been. He was blown about forty feet and burned, but not badly. Thank OSHA for safety gear!
But, as others pointed out construction, electrical workers (bet you never see him when the weather's bad either do you?) they are all dangerous and we need to be grateful to them all.