I think a better word is "cautious"
Honestly I want to believe every word is true, but it does all seem very strange.
Hopefully @pinestamara understands that we all just want the best for their chick(s) and that it's best to be honest in this situation. It would set our minds at ease if we could see a picture of the chicks and better yet, their setup
everyone here, except one, has been kind, but it does get frustrating and worrying if we aren't getting the whole/true story.
In my opinion it would be better to be honest and reject advice than to lie and "accept" it. Not accusing them of lying, as I said, I'm giving the benefit of the doubt. But it certainly does feel like it at the moment.
