Two of my sons are spending some here with me one i haven't seen in three years I am much more positive about it knowing I have the support of my family and friends.
That's great. It's so important to have support that close to you. You, your family and your friends are going through a period of time in which your perspectives on life will probably change. That will be a benefit to all of you, whatever the long term outcome.
There's something I read in study and occasionally gave to my clients. It goes something like, 'Neither the past nor the present exist. One has gone, never to return, and the other has yet to be. All we have is today, the here and now. If we spend the here and now, which is our life, contemplating the past and the future, which don't exist, our lives will pass us by.' I guess you've spotted that already.