I have had this problem before. I saw where one poster talked about thinking about something she like to do like fish while she relaxes to go to sleep. This is what I do I dream about the farm I want to build. I have fibormyalgia and getting a full nights sleep is really hard but I really need it. so doc has me on zanxa 1mg works great. its also an anti-anxiety pill that also helps. I hope you can find something that works for you. I also use a CD that has a rainstorms on it that also helps me sleep. Good luck.